Module 3 · Sextortion — What Every Teen Must Know
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Sextortion — What Every Teen Must Know

Sextortion is a serious form of online exploitation. It is not the victim's fault. This module covers recognition, response, and current official resources.

The Crime, Defined Plainly

Sextortion is when someone threatens to share private or sexual images or information unless the victim provides money, more images, or continued contact. It is exploitation. It is not the victim's fault.

80K+
CyberTipline reports concerning sextortion in 2025 (NCMEC)
1.4M
reports concerning online enticement in 2025 (NCMEC)
Help
Tell a trusted adult and use official reporting and removal resources

How It Typically Starts

Step 1: Targeting. The perpetrator identifies a victim — usually on gaming platforms, Instagram, Snapchat, or dating apps. They create a fake profile that appears attractive and age-appropriate.
Step 2: Grooming. They build trust over days or weeks — complimenting you, sharing interests, escalating intimacy gradually. This can feel like a real connection.
Step 3: Image acquisition. They request or manipulate you into sharing an intimate image, or claim to already have one (often fabricated).
Step 4: The threat. They threaten to share the image with your family, school, or contacts unless you send money or more images. The threats escalate.

Critical fact: Complying NEVER makes it stop. Every payment or additional image increases the perpetrator's leverage and their confidence that you will comply again. The only effective response is to stop contact and report.

If This Is Happening to You Right Now

You Are Not Alone. Here Is What to Do.

Stop contact with the person immediately. Do not send more images or money. Save the evidence (screenshots of threats and messages). Then contact one of these resources:

NCMEC CyberTipline
1-800-843-5678 · cybertipline.org · Available 24/7 · Reports go directly to law enforcement
FBI Online Tips
tips.fbi.gov · For financial sextortion crimes
NCMEC Take It Down
takeitdown.ncmec.org · Free help for images or videos taken when the person was under 18
Crisis Text Line
Text HOME to 741741 · If you are in emotional distress
Recognition Activity
Recognize the Playbook
Each of these is a real tactic used in sextortion cases. Tap each to understand what it signals and what to do.
Key Principle
What Never Works — and What Always Does
Never Works
  • • Sending more images
  • • Sending money
  • • Continued contact
  • • Begging them to stop
  • • Staying silent and hoping
Always Do
  • • Stop contact immediately
  • • Screenshot the threats
  • • Tell a trusted adult
  • • Report to NCMEC or FBI
  • • Use NCMEC Take It Down if the image was taken before age 18
Module Quiz
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